I am a Human Design Wellness coach. I grew up wanting to be all the things that I felt I was not. I focused on the dominant messaging in our culture that says in order to be successful, you have to do it this one way. In order to be thin, you must restrict yourself. At a certain point in my life, I started questioning these mantras and realized they do not resonate for me. Each person has their own personal blueprint – their own unique way of getting there – and that is the Human Design Chart.
A friend once asked me why I apologize for being who I am? The question definitely made me think. I did not realize I was doing that. So the why took some time. I am pretty sure it is because I was told many times growing up — who I was supposed to be and how unacceptable my preferences were. That made me attempt to hide them. So much so, that I guess I hid them from myself.
Discovering my Human Design was such a relief. There were so many things I knew about myself my entire life that I thought I had to change; in order to be worthy, successful, enough. Human Design made it special to be me. It made every person special in their own way and there were absolutely no negatives other than the ones created by the conditioning that told me to be someone else.
I feel grateful to share this information because of how important it has been for me and how many ways I think it is possible to implement. Whether self development and acceptance, relationships, communication, helping children navigate, etc. It has been invaluable.